Planning. Who knew.
Let me share with you what I've learned about love relationships by relaying the messages of angels and guides many times:
- First, there isn't necessarily something like a "soul mate" exactly, at least not in the way movies, TV shows, books, etc. would have us think. 99.9% of us don't have one person we are destined to be with who will make our blood boil and our brains turn to mush for 60 long years of blissful marriage. I know this sounds Earth-shattering, yet the world keeps spinning and gravity is still keeping my hair lying flat.
- We actually could conceivably have a functional, happy relationship with several people in any one lifetime. Our choices, his choices, timing, and in-the-flow happenings get us to the point of picking one.
- There are many "archetypes" in love relationships. There is the teacher/student dynamic; the best friend dynamic; the door-opener who shows us the world; the one that teaches us how to love ourselves; the best cheerleader we could ever have; and many more. None of these dynamics are happenstance; we choose the mate that helps us in the way we need help. Even if it is an abusive relationship, we are learning from it.
- Sometimes a love relationship is a short-term deal where a partner will appear in our life to teach us something important, and then either we or they will move on. Moving on from a significant relationship does not mean that it was an unimportant relationship; sometimes the most important lessons come from the ex-boyfriend/ex-husband.
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